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Hire a Professional El Cajon Gay Matchmaker

Here are some of the reasons El Cajon LGBT singles hire us.
  • A Personalized Approach to Matchmaking
  • Everyone is different! What you’re looking for in a partner is different than what everyone else is looking for. We understand that, and we tailor our approach around you.
  • Private and Confidential Matchmaking.
  • Your privacy is our priority! No online profiles – all of your information and photos are confidential and we do not disclose any identifying or contact information without your permission.
  • Only Relationship-Minded Singles!
  • Unlike other El Cajon matchmakers and dating services, we don’t conduct limited searches, use only our database to find matches, or restrict your matches to other paying members or clients. Whether you want us to search solely in El Cajon, or also in additional locations, we go above and beyond to find you ACTUAL matches in the LGBT – not just convenient matches.
  • No Blind Dates. You Control Who You Meet!
  • We’re good, but you still know yourself the best. We work hard to search for, screen, and interview matches for you before we present them to you, but ultimately YOU have the final say. We believe that blind dates are just recipes for disaster!

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San Diego Gay Matchmaking offers professional matchmaking services to LGBT singles in San Diego. Since we serve the entire San Diego Metro Area, our member database will give you exposure beyond just El Cajon. Our ancestors sailed across oceans to find true love, what’s a few miles of driving, right?!

We understand how difficult and overwhelming dating can be in a city like El Cajon. It might get confusing finding your way around the seemingly unlimited dating options you have. If you’re single in El Cajon, we want to be your wingman (or wingwoman)! Think of us as the friend who introduces you to her other interesting friends. Wouldn’t you like someone by your side as you set sails to find the love of your life? Someone who knows the best local hangouts - for a Sunday lunch date or for a night out with that special someone on Friday? Let’s be friends, and we are good at playing cupid, too.

Since you are single in El Cajon, keep in mind that we have local scouts in the nearby cities. Your matchmaker can introduce you to our single LGBT clients in El Cajon and other San Diego areas.